This morning during my journal session, I uncovered a deep-rooted pattern that I knew was present on the surface but haven’t really ever explored in depth.
When you are addressing patterns, thoughts, and believes it takes a certain amount of willingness to look at the dark side. It’s one of the reasons that your why may be superficial because you haven’t explored your true why.
Even if you had a great childhood, there are still messages you’ve received that you’ve internalized about your own worthiness. But for others, where trauma existed through loss or abuse, worthiness becomes something that’s challenging to dig out off.
I didn’t know I didn’t feel worthy. I know I struggled with being deserving, but worthy never came up until today.
And it will literally be riddled through all of the daily annoyances and frustrations in your life and business.
If you don’t feel worthy, your home life will be impacted by the lack of engagement and participation of your partner in several areas of the home life.
If you don’t feel worthy you’ll hide your message or products and services from people instead of sharing them proudly with the world.
If you don’t feel worthy you will always choose the struggle instead of choosing it to be easy and have more fun.
So I ask you:
What is your dream?
Why is that important to you?
But don’t just stop there and say the first thing that comes to mind. You have to keep going and dig deeper until you are either moved to tears or feel the goosebumps.
That is the core reason for why you want to achieve your dream.
For me, it was uncovering the internal need to feel validated and that’s important to me because I didn’t feel worthy.
So what are the reasons that you may not feel worthy?
The first event that comes to mind – and for me that was a trauma induced by my foster parents – is often the trigger of your core feeling and limited belief. And the more you dig and the more you ask yourself “why that matters or why it’s important” it will catapult into something so much bigger. You will undoubtedly uncover all the other events and reasons of why you haven’t felt worthy and how that initial event has really influenced all of your decisions in life.
But there is something great about uncovering the core beliefs and limiting belief patterns.
You get to change them.
You get to choose differently.
You get to create new core beliefs and thought patterns.
You are worthy of a career that lights you up.
You are worthy of relationships that are equal.
You are worthy of a home that feels amazing.
You are worthy of more fun in your life.
You are worthy of being who you are an want to be.
All you have to do is decide that today is the day you will choose differently and that you are changing your limiting belief patterns.
You are literally one decision away.
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