For women who are ready to rise above and take charge of their mindset so they can create the life their want.
For many years, people asked me how I do it.
How do I go to work, raise children, go to school, care for a medically fragile child and still show up in the world believing and doing?
I never questioned the how of doing something as I just do but as a realization set in that this guide is to help you learn my process and create the change you want in your life.
I was driven by wanting to remove the frustration from my life, and the see the abundance that already surrounded me.
My story isn’t unique but it certainly is unique to me – a little bit of a huh? what?
There are plenty of other people who have risen above through challenging stories and each story is unique to the person. We all have what it takes to change our story and to rise above those limiting beliefs that we impose upon ourselves.
And this is exactly what this course is about, identifying what you want to change or improve and come up with a solution. You have the answers already, stuck inside of you and the course is asking you to open the doors to possibility.
Change always begins from inside before it can be translated into our outer world. This course is about the internal work and applying it to the external parts into our life.
If you had enough and you are ready to change the direction of where you want to go, then this course is for you. It’s time to stop being extra in your life and start being the main character.
Give yourself permission to dream, believe in yourself and take action.
Your time is now!
When I first started my coaching business, all I wanted to do was help people. It’s still what I want to do and continue to do. But as an intuitive empath and introvert, I needed to leverage how I can create income without expanding all my energy.
You can’t be everything to everyone but you can be unapologetically you in the process.
Have clarity on what you want to be, do or have
You can’t create the life or business if you don’t know the be, do or have. You need that kind of clarity to help you give yourself direction. Deciding to start a business means knowing your purpose of your business (all the why’s and what’s). It’s about knowing your passions but more importantly recognizing which passion will be the one you are monetizing on. Not every passion is a great business idea.
You don’t need to jump on the bandwagon
There are folks out there that tell you to follow this strategy or that strategy. Or you should do this or that. And if you have been reading my blogs, you know that I am all about doing what feels good and right to you. But this came with some lessons to learn.
When periscope made its appearance, everyone was on periscope and everyone said: “be on periscope”. I gave it a try a time or three but every time I did a periscope, it just didn’t feel right. And I gave myself permission to let that go and not be on that channel.
But I am excited about building video visibility on YouTube and am currently planning some content and things I want to talk about. I am in the early stages but have the reached the point of “yes this feels good”.
Social Media is great but watch for the burnout
I love hanging out on social media, posting and engaging. What I don’t love is the lack of conversation that is happening. It’s hard to engage when one is bombarded with promo after promo. One of the strategies recommended is to be helpful. And here comes the challenge: How can you be helpful if no one asks a question. A few months ago, I reached social media burnout and I am so grateful for it because it made me ask myself how I wanted to show up in the online world. Cue the daily blogging challenge I set myself, that is still going strong.
Being able to get clear on where I want to show up and how I want to show up, set into motion ideas and dreams I want to create and define on where I am going to put my focus. I still engage and participate in Facebook Groups, but it’s no longer from a feeling of necessity.
Teach what you know
I know lots of things, some may refer this to jack of all trades but really, I love learning and I have lots of interests. It’s taking me a few months to figure this one out but everything happens in due time. People have dreams and often are a bit scared to go after them but mostly they don’t know how to make them happen. There is a conversation about just getting started but isn’t that just difficult if you don’t know where to begin? I thought so, and that is why I created courses around things that I have done, such as building a handmade commerce or writing a book.
Get started because your time is now
The biggest challenge of creating a business that feels good is getting started. I hear it all the time of what people want to do and they talk about it that eventually this or someday that but the truth is, with this kind of a mindset, it will never happen. If you want to start a business that feels good, even if you are still in a job, start now. Start by doing the research around your business by finding out what other people are doing in the field (no don’t copy them) but just see what their offers (service/products) are, what they are blogging about and find yourself a mentor/coach that can help you move along.