There was a time in my life, I would always say “one day I will” and “someday this will be true” but eventually I realized that I was only lying to myself and those I shared my dreams with because I didn’t take action.
I struggled to turn my ideas into reality while juggling work, motherhood, cultivation friendships and I got so sick and tired of not achieving my goals. I got even more tired of my excuses and the frustration and overwhelm that existed in my life.
Does this sound familiar?
I decided to get clear of what I wanted to achieve in my lifetime and map out how I would get there. This meant that I would decide what I would do for a living, how I would show up every day and only do the things that really light me up.
It meant that I would tune out the outside noise and really start focusing on my own dreams and goals, even if I hit some detours along the way.
And this is where the 90-Day Journey comes in!
The 90 Day Journey Planner
You’ll begin by mapping out your vision for your own lifetime and chunk them down into manageable road trips and step-by-step into actionable tasks that will not only help you to stay on task but manage your time and increase your productivity.
But why 90-Days?
Well, in short, you are able to review your progress and handle any detours that may come up along the way, which will help you achieve your goals in shorter sports for long-term effect.
Plus you are building your confidence a little at a time because you have a clear vision of where you are headed and celebrate achievements more often. And who doesn’t like to celebrate their own success??
What can you expect?
You will have video recordings to help you understand the planning system
A downloadable and printable planner ready to roll, 90-days at a time.
And after 90 days? You’ll print it out again and again… rinse, repeat … success!
A 147-Page Printable Planner + Video Training Course
Your Road Map to help you define where you’re headed and how you are going to get there
Roadside Success Tool Kit to help you stay on top of your game and achieve your goals
90-Day Planner to be plan for your journey, weekly & daily planner sheets, meal planning, and a monthly review to make sure you’re staying the course
- A confident you training
- Problem Solving training
- Facebook Group to support
Don’t forget, with the 90-Day Journey Handbook & Planner, you can print out the planner over and over again. All for one small investment!
Every morning you wake up with a gazillion ideas in your head, and throughout the day you get a bazillion more!
Knowing which one to start with because all of them are so incredibly exciting and you just don’t know where to begin!
I get it.
There was a time I would start a project, just to get a new idea and not finish the first project and before I knew it, I had a lot of projects started but couldn’t get myself to finish them.
Idea Creation Paralysis!
Yep, it’s a thing.
It’s the overwhelming feeling of too many ideas, feeling too flustered and overwhelmed to get started because let’s be honest you already tried so many things before to finish said projects. And every now and again you were successful but it just wasn’t enough to keep going.
So here you are, having all those ideas you want to implement, put into action and have a finished or ongoing result.
Let’s not forget that you have a million other obligations that have to be done, like feeding your children. maintaining a balance for everyone getting attention and going to work. And let’s not forget the spur of the moment activities you are doing because they feel like the right thing to do.
How in the heck will you find the time to create when you can’t even find a moment to breathe and have some alone time?
And it truly feels like there is NEVER enough time.
I am going to share with you 6 Steps to help you take consistent action, having the time to create.
This is one of the most go to activities that can help you not only clear the clutter in your brain but help you visualize all those ideas that could turn into not only started projects but also finish them.
The key, once you have done the brainstorming, is to decide which one excites you the most!
Once the brainstorm is complete, do another one. This time includes the things that need to be done daily and weekly. And then another that helps you break down all those ideas into smaller steps!
Create a Schedule
One of the biggest struggles I have found for creatives is considering the notion a schedule will help them when they are wanting to be wild and free and just roll with the punches. But how is that working out?
Take a weekly schedule and create a rough draft. Start filling it in with the daily activities that have to get done such as meal times, school hours if you are homeschooling, work hours, doctor appointments, errands and all that jazz. But don’t just write work hours but the action you are taking, this will help you know what you are doing!
Once that is finished, add the things you want to do such as self-care times and creative times. Again, be specific in the action by looking at your action steps from the brainstorm.
Batch your work sessions
Sometimes there are activities for the week that you could get done in a 2-3-hour work session. For example, writing your blog posts can be done in one day for the week or even the month if you have a dedicated time for this activity. Look at your draft and see what other activities could be batched together.
This will allow you to see where you have more time than you initially thought, therefore giving you more creative time.
What time does everyone wake up in your home? Decide to wake up 30-60 minutes before everyone so you can have some alone time, plan your day ahead (look at your schedule) and even some creative time.
There is something to be said to look at your schedule every evening. What project are you working on? Are you writing a book? Take that extra 30 or 60 minutes in the morning to work on that.
Now you know what to work on!
Refine the Schedule
Now that you have a rough draft, take a good look. How does it feel? Did you include a break after your working session?
Another tip to help you is to use a weekly schedule and track your activities to help you plan for the following week. This way you know what you are spending time on. Maybe you could cut out some TV time or social time to sit down and write that book or create that piece of art.
The refined schedule is what you are committing to for the week. To finish something or learn a new habit is with consistency.
Review what worked and what didn’t
To create a schedule as a creative, you will want to tune into what worked and what didn’t. This is where you can acknowledge the steps you are taking, the part you are still struggling with so you can make the changes that will work for you.
One of the biggest challenges, that I have found is that a schedule can feel too rigid. But something to remember, every week will not look the same. You can make tweaks as you go along.
What you are after is not only to start taking on your ideas but also finish them and a weekly schedule can help remind you but also support you with consistent action.
Extra Bonus Tip:
Keep a notebook with your goals so you can track your activity. Write the goal on top and the action steps below and every time you do one and finish one, cross it off or give it a check mark.
I have created printable to help you implement these 6 Steps!
That idea…. that dream in your heart and in your head, is begging you to do something about it.
You wake up thinking about it… you go to sleep thinking about it and I am here to tell you that if you don’t do something about that, it will never go away.
And you know deep down that unless you get over your fear, it is never going to happen.
But you must decide whether you are going to listen to that fear or if you are stepping up and out and take action anyway.
It’s time to stop the bullshit stories you tell yourself of how you can’t and really dig deep into what is stopping you.
And if I was a betting person, I venture to say you are being held back because
- you don’t feel good enough
- you don’t’ feel smart enough
- you worry about what other people will think
- you worry about failure before you have even started
It’s all hogwash! These are all stories you have learned along the way, and really, they are no longer serving you, because
You are enough!
You are smart!
And really who cares what people think? 9 times out of 10 those people are afraid to take action, so how about you pave the way?
And failure… failure is a good thing… it’s allowing you to see what is or isn’t working and then revamp how you are going about it.
Those ideas that have been swirling in your head, they are yours for the taking. They come to you because you have something amazing to offer to this world.
Incredible gifts to share and how dare you to deny others from what you are so carefully hiding.
The pain of not taking action, of not doing that thing, ask you: Is it worth it?
Because I know you are aching to bring it to life.
- Time to stop hiding.
- Time to stop worrying about being enough.
- Time to stop worrying about whether people will like you or not!
It is time to start doing!
Now that you have a vision of your future of what you want to be, do and have, it’s time to refine some of your ideas. My favorite exercise to release all those ideas is to brainstorm. Looking at the vision you have created, what will help you get there.
Take 15-20 minutes to brainstorm some ideas. It doesn’t matter how small or big they are. Right now, it’s just about finding all the possibilities, personally and professionally.
Once you have all ideas jotted down, look at your list and see what gets you so excited that you are just about laughing or crying at the same time. Your heart is singing, your mind is going a million miles an hour. Also, take note of what feels crazy and insane and so far out of reach but wouldn’t it be amazing if that was a real thing?
It’s easy to feel overwhelmed with your list of ideas, and I will discuss setting a goal in the next section. But for now, take a deep breath and look at all those possibilities. All those ideas or just a few of those thoughts can help you create your vision. Some of them won’t even work at all or are not worthy of consideration. All of which is okay.
So, what do you do with all those ideas?
I like to rate them according to how I feel about them and level of importance. As you look at your brainstorming list, write a feeling word next to them. And then look at your list again and give it rate them to what feels most important.
As you are rating the priority of each possibility, consider:
- What would it mean if you didn’t act on this idea?
- What is the best or the worst thing that could happen?
- What would it mean if you did take action on this idea?
- How does it relate to your overall vision?
Don’t be afraid to compare each idea to the next. For example, if part of your vision is to write a book or take dance lessons, which one is more important? If you want to start a business and learn how to set boundaries, which is more important. Continue this until you reach that one thing you want to start right now.
This doesn’t mean you couldn’t start doing some of the other things, but focus on one goal and get started as you create your mind set on fire.
Do not quit! Don’t ever give up. Keep working on your dream.
You will have highs and lows and hallelujahs and there will be a point where you are going to hit that sweet spot.
Success – whatever it means to you – does not work in linear fashion. It’s more like the ocean where the waves are too big and the undertow is too strong, pulling you under each wave as it comes towards you. You are struggling to stay on top of the wave, to be successfully swimming with it, and yes you will without a shadow of a doubt have those moments.
You are struggling to stay on top of the wave, to be successfully swimming with it, and yes you will without a shadow of a doubt have those moments.
The challenge is that when the undertow pulls you into the water, to keep being determined and to keep going.
Sometimes that means not going after idea alone but to surround us with the net of people that can listen to us, give us feedback and pull us up from under when they see us struggling.
Have an idea… do it … make it happen… go all in and freaking refuse to listen to your fears or all those negative ninnies.
And yes, you will come across people who tell you that it’s not safe and that it’s crazy to make that idea happen.
- Why would you write a book that may be controversial?
- Why would you quit your job to do what you love?
- Why would you leave the comfort of your home to travel the world?
And there will be many more questions like this that people very close to you think you are crazy and just damn lost your mind.
- What will people think?
- Who the hell cares? Is this your life or theirs?
- Do you live to please others? Or do you live to follow your ideas and passions?
Someone once told me that I can’t have the cake and eat it too. I was dreaming too big and it just couldn’t happen.
Here I am now, having the cake and eating it too because it is what I wanted.
I am not here to please people.
I am here to help them move forward and follow their own inner guidance of ideas and dreams.
Your ideas and dreams are yours alone and no one has the right to tell you otherwise!