What is it that you are waiting for?

What is it that you are waiting for?

Dreams will never become a reality if you don’t turn them into goals and take action!

And creating a life or business can feel overwhelming if you don’t know where to begin. It can also be incredibly lonely but once you make the first move, it can be exhilarating. I speak from personal experience.

There is something to be said about having people in your corner cheering you on and supporting you in your journey as you follow on spark at a time.

Here’s the thing, until you get a taste of your dream you won’t really know if it really aligns with who you and what you stand for. My dream and goal are to live in an RV in about 5-6 years when my youngest has finished school and lives independently.

But that’s not the point! My point is that I got a taste of what that would be and feel like and I am more excited than ever to make that a reality for me. I wouldn’t know this had I not gone to the Rock Festival and camped out.

So here’s the thing, having someone who understands the struggle and the challenges is kind of a cool thing to have in your corner and can be a life changer.

There is so much ability you have and you are filled with amazing potential just sitting inside of you waiting for you to ignite the spark and create a life where everything feels incredible and amazing. It takes time, work and support to achieve all that you want to be, do and have.

And this is why I am so passionate about the Rebel Spark Collective because it is the place and space where I am real with you as I keep working towards my own dreams and goals while at the same time supporting you to do the same. It’s where we have those hard and vulnerable conversations you can’t find on social media.

The Rebel Spark Collective is your go-to place for personal development and following your sparks whether they lead you to a career or the business of your dreams. It’s where you get accountability, motivation and a hell of a good time.

What I’d love to share with you is that I hear, see and experience you to be one of the clearest and most authentic voices on topics such as self-leadership, empowerment, mindset but also in general. I follow quite a few coaches, trainers and speakers and really find that you have an outstanding clarity, wisdom and beauty to name a few things – Tamara

What are you waiting for?

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Weekly Assignments are journal prompts + actionable steps to help you go deeper into who you are and disrupt your own patterns that are keeping you stuck. I believe that if you want to succeed at anything in life, then personal development is the key to make it happen.

Get Things Done Thread a place for you to state your goal and your actions and receive regular check-ins and accountability.

Round up Emails to stay in the loop on everything that happened so that you don’t have to worry about a thing – and a gentle reminder to do the work.

Monthly Challenges that will help you in life + business to create the change in your own world that will extend to the rest of the world with ease. These will be random at it’s best. BUT here’s the thing, if you need a specific challenge to help you go to the next level, lay it on me so I can get that going for you.

Weekly Facebook Office Hours – Get your questions answered, support through a challenge or potential solutions to your problems. Nothing will be ignored. I am in the mud with you and will answer every single question.

Monthly Connection Calls for when you need a little bit of tough love because the voices in your head are too loud. This is coaching, mentoring and connecting all rolled into one. We will have some amazing conversations but also address any challenges you may be experiencing.

Facebook Community so you can share whatever is on your heart – and mind. And more importantly, connect with everyone and make those amazing connections worldwide.

The Rebel Spark Collective is my passion and life. I am putting my heart and soul into creating this for you because I want you to be able to have the life you want, desire and deserve!

I am committed to you and your success and feel called to walk through the darkness with you until you set the world on fire (figuratively not literally because that be bad!)

3 Ways you can join the Rebel Spark Collective!

  • Pay as you go every month. Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy – no tie or contract.
  • Annual Membership BUT you get two months free!
  • 3 Months VIP so you can have that extra support! Limited to 6 people at a time!

So let’s get this show on the road!

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Next scheduled connection call is September 10th at 5 pm EST.

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What is it that you are waiting for? Dreams will never become a reality if you don't turn them into goals and take action!

And creating a life or business can feel overwhelming if you don't know where to begin. It can also be incredibly lonely but once you make the first move, it can be exhilarating. I speak from personal experience.
How to get things done that are important to you

How to get things done that are important to you

I know what it feels like to have these ideas and dreams and struggle to get started. Figuring out what is important and how to get things done can be challenging.

I have 3 kids, am a multi-passionate and run 3 businesses. It wasn’t until I discovered how to create focus and time management skills that suited me that I began making an impact in my life and in my businesses.

But just how to do you identify what is important to you? How to narrow down what your steps are to move towards your goal?

At the end of each month, I sit down and get clear on the goals that I want to achieve. I start with the main goal and then break it down into smaller goals. The smaller goals are the action steps that support the main goal.

This will look like this:

  • Main Goal
    • Smaller goal
    • Smaller goal
    • Smaller goal

You can create as many smaller goals as you need that will support your main goal. And once you have identified what will help you achieve the main goal, it is time to create action steps for each goal.

  • Smaller goal
    • Action step
    • Action step
    • Action step

The one thing I learned that may be helpful to you is that goals and action steps change. It’s important to allow for flexibility and recognize when something becomes less important.

Here’s the thing to remember, all those smaller goals and action steps support your main goal, and you can work them into your schedule. Start with the one that seems most important or pressing to get done, and add it to your daily planner.

Then look at all the other steps and tasks you need to get done and rank them by priority and fit them into your schedule accordingly. Some tasks will take less time than others. Some smaller goals you can get done in one day while other’s need to be spread out over a week or months.

Rebels Guide to Goals

Check out the Rebels Guide to Achieve Your Goals! 

 

 

I know what it feels like to have these ideas and dreams and struggle to get started. Figuring out what is important and how to get things done can be challenging.
Getting clear on your goals

Getting clear on your goals

Challenge, situation or circumstance I have been asked: How do you do it?

This is a simple enough question, except that I have struggled to give the answer because I just do. It is such an automatic process because it is something that I have always done.

I have very little room for bullshit such as excuses, whining and complaining. I get an idea and if it excites me enough I work towards to make it happen. Like running a 14-Day Coloring Challenge that in the middle of creating it prompted me to redo the entire website for my coloring page collection.

But sometimes one must dig deeper for the bigger vision. So here is my process:

  • I get clear on what I wanted
  • I create a vision of the result I want to achieve
  • I do the work required to make it happen

This isn’t always as easy as it seems because obstacles and hurdles come up and try to get in the way. Fear, frustration, and self-doubt will trip you up and others, including your ego, will tell you that you can’t do it.

I was told I am a failure but if failure means going to school, graduating with two degrees and raising my children well, then I have succeeded! I win!

To gain the confidence, you must do the work and once you do the work all those negative voices will be silenced!

Going after your goal is scary and you will hear that you are not smart enough, that you are not good enough but who the heck are those naysayers? What do they know? They only know what they believe about themselves – because they didn’t go to college, you can’t go to college. Because they were told to work a job for their rest of their lives, they can’t have a business of their own and neither can you!

Well to hell with that!

Go and get clear on your dreams and turn them into focused oriented goals!

I have very little room for bullshit such as excuses, whining and complaining. I get an idea and if it excites me enough I work towards to make it happen.
What’s it going to take before you will take action

What’s it going to take before you will take action

You have this amazing dream of writing a book, starting a business and perhaps even lose some weight. And yet, here we are at the end of May and you’re looking everything, realizing you didn’t get very far.

What are you waiting for?

Are you waiting for the perfect moment?
Are you waiting for until you’ve perfected the skill?
Are you waiting for the moment you feel you’re enough?

Why can’t it be right this very moment?

What is holding you back?

Is it fear of failing? Fear of disappointing yourself or others?

Worry?

The lack of not knowing how?

Every excuse you make is a bullshit reason for why you are not willing to make your dream, goal or resolution happen.

When is enough, well enough?

How much longer are you willing to just watch others make their own dreams come true while you are still wishing you could?

Here is the truth: You can!

You need to stop making excuses and start taking action – even when the fear is as loud as a damn jet engine.

Fear is just an emotion, just like anger, love, happiness etc. Are you willing to allow the emotion to rule you, or are you willing to decide how you are going to feel and what you are going to do?

I think too often, we forget that we have a choice.

We always have a choice!

When we were kids, we were told we don’t have a choice. We need to follow the rules, do as we are told. We are told to graduate high school, go to college or learn a trade.

We are told that we should be grateful for the job we have and just go on with our mediocre life.

Yes, I said it: MEDIOCRE

Because I know you envision your life to be different. I know that you have dreams and goals that you want to achieve but because you were told you didn’t have a choice, you just let life slip on by.

What if I told you that you are in control of your life, that you have the power to choose what you will or will not do and how you will live?

Choose and Decide!

What’s it going to be? Living your life to the rules of someone else or your own?

What’s it going to take before you will take action
How to break down your challenge into baby steps

How to break down your challenge into baby steps

No one likes a challenge that leaves you overwhelmed but I am going to share some concepts that make it feel and look like a piece of cake.

When you’re faced with a big obstacle, you can tackle it much easier when you take on small actions, rather than thinking you have to do it all and make it happen right now.

Take Stock

Clarity will help you overcome just about anything, you need to look at the problem. Write down exactly what the situation is, what it is you need most and what the end goal is. For example, if you’re are in a situation in which you require money, be clear on the purpose for the money, how much money you need and when you need it by i.e. write down the date! Now that you know exactly what you’re up against, it’s time to make that major problem and turn it into something manageable.

Brainstorm

You’ve still got your pen and paper in front of you, so start jotting down any ideas you can think of that can help you solve the challenge. Don’t leave any idea out and just free writer all the possible ways that money can come to you!  Write down what you can sell, who you can borrow from, what odd jobs or services you can provide for extra cash and other such ideas.

Assess

Now that you have a list of ideas, look them over. All of the ideas have a possibility to work but choose the one that makes most sense or ist most like to work for you to solve the challenge. If some of them are a bit outrageous or too tricky, that’s okay just keep them on the bottom of your list of possibilities.

Plan

You’ve named the challenge, brainstormed the possible solutions and now it’s time to make a plan. Start with the first solution, and write out small steps you can take to make that idea a reality. The smaller the better. These tiny actions are easier to approach than your overwhelmingly larger goal. As you complete each one, you’ll start to feel more confident and see your goal coming closer to reality. In our quest for rent money, you may want to write down just what steps you’ll need to take in order to begin selling off your unneeded possessions. Start by making a list of what’s most valuable, and then gather the items. Next decide where to place your ads, such as in Facebook sales groups or Craigslist. Maybe you have a pawn shop near you that will give you quick cash. With each baby step you add to your plan, you’ll see that coming up with the money you need just might be doable, after all.

Act

All the problem solving and planning won’t work if you don’t take action. Schedule activities in your planner and cross them off when you’re finished. Before you know it, you’re closer to your goals. In our example, your available funds will start to grow. Every little bit counts.

There’s no need to get stuck in overwhelm when faced with challenges. Breaking it down into baby steps will help you reach the goals you need to overcome nearly any obstacle.

 

How to break down you challenge into baby steps