Fear of not having it all together – what is your priority?

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Sometimes we think, we should have it all together and everything should happen at once. Fear creeps in because we don’t have the perfect job, lifestyle and partner and you are so afraid and stressed out that this will never happen that you are stuck. I had a client session and she is creating the life she wants to do the work she loves, BUT she put so much pressure on being in a relationship that the fear of never finding the right person made her life feel heavy.

In a session with a client recently that is exactly what was happening, there was so much pressure of everything needed to happen at ones that life became less joyful.

After an hour, she realized that sometimes we create internal pressure based on other people’s expectations. And then she realized she doesn’t have time to nurture a relationship right now and just wants to revel in her freedom that she is creating.

See here what she said about our work together.

I loved every bit of the deep unraveling I had and every bit of you as well. I didn’t have any hesitations about working with you even though I wasn’t sure how it would go. I am intuitive and I just felt called by your vibe. I love your spontaneity, openness, laughter, humor, immense compassion, and down to earth realness. The way you can look at things in the bigger picture was helpful and awesome. I wasn’t expecting anything from the call and was just open to receive whatever would come, but I couldn’t have imagined uncovering so much and going so deep within just an hour!!! 

I feel freer, lighter, and more at ease with myself. It was just exactly what I needed. What I received and learned from this call I shall take with me forever on my journey! Such a powerful precious gift!  – Aishwarya Luna Lakshmi

So where can you take the pressure off today?

Where can you stop wondering and worrying about how everything is going to fall into place.

Where is your priority right now? Is it with you, your work and your lifestyle? Or is it putting yourself out there and finding the right mate?

Whatever you choose to focus on, let go of the pressure of having it all together at the same time.

You are exactly where you are supposed to be.  

Sometimes we are getting pressure from external sources especially when it comes to having a partner. Family and friends have the expectations that we are married with kids at a certain age while for you that may not be high on the list.


 

Petra is a coach and mentor for creatives, rebels and dreamers who are ready to find the courage to forge their own path because life is too short to feed the fear.

She’s the founder of the Rebel Soul Connection, a community for creatives, rebels, and dreamers to take action with tools, resources, support, and accountability.

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